I think if people could step inside a person who has been betrayed by the love of their life and feel the agony it causes, no one who is human would have it in their heart to cause someone that much pain and heartache ! My thoughts, Every relations from where we get warmness... are mostly kind of granted one. Means you never had to make an effort to choose them they have made to choose you. But in case of Love... Between a two bloodly unknown persons.... You need to make an effort to choose them. That's why this agony is enormous when betrayed. Because we have chosen them according to our preferences and mind set. And we unknowingly confirming our self about things that, we won't get a second chance. But not dear... We just need to change the place and focus. We have more in the bucket of life.